Arrival & Exploration
You, at the back of the
plane. Figures.
We can’t wait to see you in the Bay! To help you navigate the trip without stress, we’ve put together some tips on transportation, places to eat, and things to do while you’re here. Scroll down for all the details so you can focus on celebrating instead of directions.
Getting About
Travel & Stays
We can’t wait to party with you! Since a lot of you will be flying in, here are a few tips so you don’t get stuck sleeping on a BART bench (please don’t).
Getting Around
You’ve got BART (Bay Area Rapid Transit), Lyft/Uber, and rental cars to get you from A to B.
Bay Area Airports
Oakland (OAK): The easiest option if you’re staying near the reception. You’ll be in Oakland or Berkeley in about 20 minutes by Uber/Lyft or BART. Think of it as “door to dance floor” speed.
San Francisco (SFO): Totally doable, but the BART ride into Oakland is almost an hour. If you’re coming in during rush hour, you’ll be cozy with a few hundred of your newest friends.
San Jose (SJC): Yeeeaah, no.
Where to Stay
Our ceremony is at San Francisco City Hall, but the real late-night fun (aka the reception) is in Oakland. To make life easier, we strongly recommend staying in Oakland or Berkeley. We’ve pulled together a list of hotels and rentals in low, medium, and “treat yourself” ranges. Of course, if you’re feeling adventurous, you can absolutely go rogue and find your own spot.
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Saul’s Restaurant & Delicatessen – A long-time Berkeley deli with bagels, lox, and traditional Jewish comfort food.
Tanzie’s – Thai breakfast and brunch spot in Oakland with dishes like rice porridge and curries alongside coffee and pastries.
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Fava – Casual East Bay spot specializing in falafel, hummus, and other Mediterranean staples.
Viks Chaat – Popular counter-service place in Berkeley serving classic Indian street food.
Doña – Modern Mexican with tacos, rice bowls, and margaritas.
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Café Colucci – Ethiopian food in Oakland, great for sharing platters and stews with injera.
Ramen Shop – Seasonal ramen with a Bay Area spin, plus cocktails and small plates.
Burdell – Oakland restaurant focused on Southern-inspired cooking that’s received national attention.
Sobre Mesa – Afro-Latino cocktail lounge in Oakland with small plates. Fun fact: the groom did the buildout and design.
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Lake Merritt & the Saturday Grand Lake Farmers Market – Take a walk around the lake, then browse the farmers market for local produce, food stalls, and live music.
Oakland Museum of California (OMCA)– Exhibits covering California art, history, and natural sciences, plus an outdoor terrace and koi pond.
Black Panther Party Museum– Focused on the history and legacy of the Black Panther movement, rooted in Oakland.
Telegraph Avenue – A stretch of Oakland known for bars, restaurants, and live music venues—plenty of spots to grab a drink or catch a show.
Redwood Regional Park – Hiking trails through redwoods and open space, all within a short drive of the city.
Heinold’s First and Last Chance Saloon (Jack London Square) – A historic waterfront bar dating back to 1883, once frequented by Jack London himself.
Berkeley Rose Garden – A terraced amphitheater filled with roses, with views across the Bay.
“Are You Not Entertained?”